Astrology Alert: What's your Black Moon Lilith?

There's so much more to Astrology than just your Sun sign. If you are an astrology nerd like me, you are probably well versed in your rising, your mars, your moon, etc etc. 

But, have you ever heard of your Black Moon Lilith sign? Let's think of Lilith as your feminist sign, the woman who in biblical  history married Adam first before he cast her away because she wasn't submissive enough.  Lilith deals with our unconscious aspects within ourselves, the darker stuff we don't like to come to light

Below is a link to Café astrology to find out your black moon Lilith and you can come click back here for a mini description.

Click here for your Lilith Sign

     

Black Moon Lilith in Aries: 

Your sensuality is overflowing and your approach to love is firm and direct, there are no games over here-which can scare some of your less direct suitors. That's okay though, independence and freedom will deepen your soul, do not suppress this.  There is plenty of yang energy here, perhaps you consider yourself a femme fatale. You hold a lot of energy and need a good outlet to express that energy. Ask yourself how can you channel that? The importance is finding the healthy outlet to let go of all the Mars energy, since Mars is the ruler of Aries and baby you are on fire over here. 

Your personal quote: "Be true to yourself, stay focused and stay you, take advice from other folks, use what you can, but never mind what is not for you. For the most part, trust yourself and believe in what you are doing." -Musiq Soulchild 

"You must channel your energy towards what you love. For what you love is the foundation of your life."-Leon Brown 

Black Moon Lilith in Taurus: Money, money, and materialism all are aspects of this sign. However things can take a wrong turn, if you don't sit down and really take time to understand what is truly valuable to you. You don't have to own everything, but best not to go to the extremes and give away everything either. As deeply stubborn as maybe you can be, you have to remember that the world is in a constant state of motion, and you should be too. When it comes to act of pleasure, do you allow yourself to feel pleasure or are you on the opposite end to the extremes? Be careful and balance yourself, this sign is in the sign of the Venus planet Taurus, but without all the kindness. Pleasure is good for pleasures sake, but there is also love too. 

Your personal quote: “The things you own end up owning you. It's only after you lose everything that you're free to do anything.”

― Chuck Palahniuk, Fight Club

Black Moon Lilith in Gemini: Oh, ruled by the planet of Mercury, okay Wordgirl (or all the pronouns). Perhaps you have a way with words, or maybe you need to hold back a bit so you don't offend anyone. 

This sign can be a double edged sword, because you may have trouble expressing yourself or you may voice your opinion toooo much and play devils advocate. This Lilith impacts how you communicate with others. Before you speak maybe you need to ask yourself, "Is what I am saying true? Does this need to be said? What's the purpose of what I am saying? Is there a better way to get my message across?". Find healthy ways to communicate not just to others, but to yourself as well. To unlock your full power and manifest your dreams, figure out the best way to communicate so everyone wins. To listen is also to communicate. 

Your personal quote: “Listen with curiosity. Speak with honesty. Act with integrity. The greatest problem with communication is we don’t listen to understand. We listen to reply. When we listen with curiosity, we don’t listen with the intent to reply. We listen for what’s behind the words.”

― Roy T. Bennett, The Light in the Heart

Black Moon Lilith in Cancer: Family and friends are important to you, you seek community and you may have not actively gotten the village you wanted in previous years. Community is so important because it helps build us up and interact with others. Maybe you see others doing something, you may want to try as well, but instead you watch from the sidelines never feeling like you have enough bravery to just get up and do it-BUT YOU DO. This is something you need to overcome, its okay to daydream but its even better to get out there and do the things you dream about. How can you free yourself? Here's a hint: It lays within your feminine energy and embracing it. 

Your personal quote: “Dismantle your wounds so you stop living your life by them.”
― Nikki Rowe

Black Moon Lilith in Leo: Baby you gotta put on some sunscreen, because the sun can shine a little too brightly over here. Either you are taking in to much sun with all that EGO, or hiding from the brightest aspects of yourself and steering away from the spotlight. Become your own spotlight, because you shine bright, and it's okay to want others to see that too, but remember the highest validation is the one you give yourself and the only validation you need. Self confidence is important, own it. No one is you and that is your superpower.  You are more than just how you appear. 

Your personal quote: “The moment you doubt whether you can fly, you cease for ever to be able to do it.”

― J. M. Barrie, Peter Pan

Black Moon Lilith in Virgo: When Virgo comes to play its all about order: getting things in order, details, and analyzing. Are you either to much of an obsessive perfectionist or just chaotically messy. Have you ever heard of balance? Balance is good, not everything is black and white, nor does it need to be. Be a little more realistic for yourself and others. Relax, take in the moment, and enjoy it.  Do you find that limit yourself? Really dig deep into why this is and how you can just let it be. Don't improve it, it doesn't need improving, it sure doesn't need fixing. Sometimes the best things to do is just let things be and relax into it. 

Your personal quote: "“Have no fear of perfection - you'll never reach it.”
― Salvador Dali

Black Moon Lilith in Libra: Ah Libra, the Venusian sign, you are quite seductive aren't you with all that charm, it's to bad you sometimes put other people on pedestal and not yourself.  Perhaps you are all about love and at the same time weirdly oddly sabotaging it? It's okay to want companionship, it doesn't make you weak. People need people. Welcome to the journey of self-acceptance. While Lilith in Leo needs to learn to accept it's okay to want validation, you maybe need to take a step back and should not want to impress others. It is okay though to want your partner to validate you, but you also need to validate you. 

Your personal quote: "“Because one believes in oneself, one doesn't try to convince others. Because one is content with oneself, one doesn't need others' approval. Because one accepts oneself, the whole world accepts him or her.”

― Lao Tzu

Black Moon Lilith in Scorpio: Sometimes letting go of our control is the only way to have control. Lilith is at home in the sign of Scorpio, but only if home is like grief, trauma, seduction, and taboos. You are like the phoenix, you have the ability to transform and resurrect from the shadow, but you must want too. The only thing that needs changing is our mind, no one else's.  I just want to note though, you may have been through intense experiences in life, and not all of them you deserved. Moving forward, lets not hold onto things that don't serve you anymore, don't obsess over it. 

Your personal quote: You must learn to let go. Release the stress. You were never in control anyway.”

― Steve Maraboli, Life, the Truth, and Being Free

Black Moon Lilith in Sagittarius: Well this is a restless placement, either you are always on the move or somehow restricting yourself. Your biggest tests may come from traveling to foreign countries, this Sagittarius is all about adventure. Adventure of the self and the outward world. Maybe you grew up restricted in some way, or maybe you have been restricting yourself in someway. It's okay to have a different opinion or go against  the wind. Sails go against the wind all the time. 

Your personal quote: "Go against the grain, refuse to conform, take the road less traveled instead of the well-beaten path. Laugh in the face of adversity, and leap before you look. Dance as though EVERYBODY is watching. March to the beat of your own drummer. And stubbornly refuse to fit in.”

― Mandy Hale, The Single Woman: Life, Love, and a Dash of Sass

Black Moon Lilith in Capricorn: Caps are all about exceling, but when it falls into Lilith, maybe you snuff out your desire to succeed or overtake on responsibility. Whatever is burdening you,  you need to let go of control and be vulnerable. It's okay to show emotion, it doesn't make you a reckless wreck, it makes you quite human actually. You don't need to wait to show people how you are feeling just because you feel you haven't achieved enough. Stop burdening yourself with whatever is plaguing your mind.  

Your personal quote: “Perfectionism doesn't believe in practice shots. It doesn't believe in improvement. Perfectionism has never heard that anything worth doing is worth doing badly--and that if we allow ourselves to do something badly we might in time become quite good at it. "― Julia Cameron, Finding Water: The Art of Perseverance

Black Moon Lilith in Aquarius: Aquarius falls into the 11th house naturally which has to do with community, groups, and other things-basically it's the house of friends. How do you cultivate friendships? Do you hold onto the wrong people? Or maybe you are a lone wolf, who would rather be apart of a pack. It's okay to want to be apart of a community and still keep your independence, the two aren't necessarily opposite of each other. It's the same side of the coin. Discover your true desires and share that with the world, that will help you find your tribe. 

Your personal quote: “We are never alone

We are all wolves

Howling to the same moon.”

― Atticus Poetry, Atticus

Black Moon Lilith in Pisces: I remember reading a book called the four agreements, and one of the agreements was to not take anything personally, it isn't about you. Pisces is a complex sign as it carries the backs of all the others. Perhaps you consider yourself spiritual or maybe you are denying your own spirituality? Whatever the case, as a water element you have a high intuition, but don't confuse anxiety, paranoia, and external influences for intuition. It's quite easy to wobble here, as you are very susceptible to the energies around you. Ground yourself enough to recognize what is intuition and what is just a story you tell yourself in your mind. 

Your personal quote: “I believe in intuitions and inspirations...I sometimes FEEL that I am right. I do not KNOW that I am.”

― Albert Einstein

-teisha